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Asocial Violence: Mindset Monday

asocial violence is where the real criminals dwell

Evil criminal in a mask looking at the viewer; copy space on the left.

Monday again…yay…right? right?  Mindset is one of the things I have always found most useful when thinking and learning about fighting. So now I get to think about it every Monday, and it makes me happy. I know last week I talked about awareness and the first main type of violence, social violence. Well this is the second part to that. Asocial Violence.

Asocial violence is the really scary stuff. This is where the real injury and great bodily harm happen. While social violence is the world of the chest beaters and hot heads (neither of which we should be if we are training to carry and use a weapon), Asocial violence it where the murderers, rapists, kidnappers live. The three percent of the population that can be called socio/psychopath.

There is no social game being played, this isn’t a monkey dance, this is predator and prey. You are the means to to an end, food to be devoured. I like to show students videos of what I mean. Below is one of my favorite videos to illustrate asocial violence. this happened late last year (2020) and while it is not graphic, it perfectly shows what asocial violence is. (It is loud)

There are two main types of human predators.

  • Resource Predators: This type uses a tool to get what they want; a mugger that points a knife, the armed robber that uses a gun, or a hostage taker that uses a person to bargain. This type doesn’t necessarily want or enjoy hurting people. They just want something from you but, make no mistake, they have no problems hurting people either to get what they want.
  • Process Predators: These are the bad of the bad. These guys commit crimes because they enjoy it and the crime itself is the goal. In this category we find the rapists, the serial killers and, the child abductors.

What type of predator was shown in the video above?

Avoid dark allys The most effective thing that you can do to keep from encountering this type of violence is to avoid putting yourself in situations where you may run into these types of predators and be aware of your surroundings so that you can spot this danger before it becomes a real threat. when you are out in public,

  • Walk with a purpose: don’t just wander around, Know where you are going and go there
  • don’t get distracted by devices; phones, tablets, etc.
  • Stay with the crowd: don’t take that shortcut down the dark ally
  • Pay attention to everyone: do a threat assessment on everyone you see
  • Park in well lit areas
  • Whenever possible go with friends and stay together.

Even doing everything you can to not get into a situation, if someone is motivated enough…the situation may find you. It is these times that we train and prepare for and, where the other 2 areas of mindset come in…but those are other posts. Make sure to stay up to date with us, like our Facebook page and share our articles

Setup Saturday: What Equipment Do You Need To Start Shooting?

what equipment do I need

When I first started figuring out the types of posts that I wanted to do weekly, an equipment series was defiantly one of the first that came to mind. One of the biggest things that new shooters deal with when they first start training is what equipment they need. It can be completely overwhelming looking at a 24 foot wall of handguns, or holsters, or whatever. The choice and variety is both a blessing and a curse of the industry. I figured who better to help me with this than the person that has helped guide me through the maze of available gear. Thankfully he agreed so I would like to introduce you to one of my friends, and one of the best shooters that I have the pleasure of knowing, Travis Glinski.

Every week he will cover the essential gear that every shooter should have. From every day carry (EDC) to advanced training Travis has the knowledge and experience to help us all make sense of all He has decided that he would like to call this series “Building the Modern Minute Man”.the options. Enjoy this first installment below.

Gear, we love it, we crave it, we flex on instagram with it, but are you buying the right gear for you? Or are you buying it because your favorite online operator is being paid to sell it to you? It is easy to get deep in the weeds on gear and they only get thicker the further down you go. So why not start at the top and cover the absolute basics for everyone, beginner or seasoned this should be the bare minimum for the prepared individual.

Before we get into gear, there is a disclaimer. No amount of widgets, gadgets, optics, or money can ever buy you skill. That is earned under the watchful eye of a competent instructor. If you are new, that’s fine, this will get you the basic equipment needed to get started. However, after you’re started, instead of buying another wackmaster 4000 or phased plasma rifle in the 40 watt range, go get training to use what you have.

With my infomercial done we can truly begin. I figured we could start at what seems most logical, the gun. I mean, that’s why we all got here, right? Hopefully this will not only provide you with what to get but why to get it, I always feel that understanding why a purchase is being made can help me wrestle with the age old quantity vs quality problem. Buy the right thing and buy it once, do that and I promise you, I will have saved you so much wasted money.

So, where were we? Ah, yes, blasters. Its funny because when I started getting into guns there were like six options, now, you can get a single stacked pocket glock, or a modular sig p320 and anything in between. It is a blessing and a curse. The good news is new gun owners have so many options to find the right gun, the downside is there are SO many options, how could we possibly ever narrow it down? Easy, for absolutely everyone I recommend any companies version of the glock 19, everyone makes one. Whether its the sig 320, m&p 2.0c, canik tp9 sf elite, walther pdp, hk vp9, cz p10c, it doesn’t matter, just get that companies version of the glock 19.

They typically have a 4 to a 4.5 inch barrel, striker fired, polymer frame, and a magazine that holds 15 rounds and its chambered in 9mm. It is the perfect sized gun, it is small enough to carry but big enough to fight with. Of course, Im going to suggest you just get the original, the og, the one and only Glock 19.

its ugly Most people will buy everything before they buy a Glock, “its ugly”, “I don’t like Glocks”, “Glocks are plastic junk”, Ive heard it all and its all nonsense and excuses.

All the guns Ive listed are competitively priced so they all win there, what aren’t competitively priced are magazines, sig costs $50, cz is about $30-$40, s&w is in the $35 range, but glocks, $15 on sale $20 normally. Any company that makes a holster makes it for a glock 19, need a spare part because you dropped it, or lost it? They’re everywhere and they’re cheap. The cost of ownership is the lowest with a glock 19 and if after 40 years people are still trying to beat it, its a logical place to start.

~Travis Glinski~

Hopefully this post will help you if you are just starting out as a shooter or even have some experience but looking to add to your gear. Having the right equipment is the first step.

Stance: Training Tip Tuesday

Tuesday is here and it’s time to begin “training tip Tuesday”. This is where we are going to talk about training tips and techniques. We are going to start with the fundamentals of; stance, grip, sight picture, trigger control, and follow through. Today’s post will focus on shooting stance and why it is so important.

What do building a house, baking a layer cake, and shooting all have in common? to be successful they all require a solid foundation. In a house it is brick, cinder block, or cement. The first layer of a cake needs to be the most level or the cake will fall. In shooting it all starts with what touches the ground…for most of us, that’s our feet.

If you ask 100 firearms instructors what the best shooting stance is, you will get several different answers. The truth is that none of them are wrong. It really depends on several different factors but, there are 3 “main” shooting stances.

Weaver StanceThe first is the Weaver stance. this stance was developed in the late 1950’s by competition shooter and L.A. county deputy, Jack Weaver. There are a couple different tales on how this stance developed but, the short versions are that it was either that he was competing in quick draw competitions and wanted a way to draw and use sighted fire as quickly as possible. The other is that there was a match coming up and he had an injury that prevented him from fully extending his support (or non firing) arm. Either way because of his success in matches this became the “standard” shooting platform for civilians, and law enforcement alike. This stance is characterized by the following.

  • The shooters body is bladed (turned sideways) to the target by placing the strong side foot back and turning the support side of the upper body towards the target.
  • The strong or firing arm is extended with the support arm elbow bent

Pros: This allows the shooter to use a very stable “push/pull” grip where the firing arm pushes and the support arm pulls, making it easier to manage recoil. This is a great “marksman” style stance and is very stable.

Cons: The biggest cons to me are that in the L.E. sector this stance can expose part of your body (side) that is unprotected. In the civilian world this stance can be difficult to maintain in a dynamic, defensive situation.


 Isosceles StanceThe next stance is the isosceles stance. This stance is the most commonly taught to new shooters. This is because many argue that it mimics the body’s natural reaction posture that will happen in a defensive situation. Like the Weaver stance this stance became popular when in the 1980’s Brian Enos, and Rob Leatham began using it to win IPSC shooting competitions. This stance is formed by.

  • Squaring the shoulders to the target.
  • Feet are shoulder width or even a little more apart. With toes pointing towards the target.
  • Knees are slightly bent.
  • Both arms are extended so that along with the shoulders form a triangle (shocker right)

Pros: The major positives to this stance are that it feels like a very natural stance to most people, because of the fully extended arms it allows for greater recoil management. This has a positive effect on accuracy when delivering multiple shots.

Cons: While this stance is very stable side to side, it is unstable forward to back. This stance also does not allow the shooter to be as agile during movement.

Fighter StanceThis final stance can be called by many names; fighting, boxer, tactical, modified isosceles, etc. I call it a “fighting” stance and it is the one that I use and teach in my Concealed Carry and Home Defense Fundamentals and my Basic Pistol courses because, I believe that it strikes the right balance of natural feeling, stability, and ease of movement. It was developed in the military/special forces and has made its way into civilian defensive shooting. This stance is similar to the isosceles.

  • The shooters shoulders are squared to the target.
  • Feet roughly shoulder width apart
  • The strong (or firing) side foot is slightly back
  • Knees slightly bent
  • Both arms fully extended

Pros: This stance works for any weapon system; handgun, rifle, knife, baton, etc. so you only need to train one stance. This stance provides stability both side to side and front to back. It also makes it easy to move in any direction, allowing you to stay more dynamic.

Cons: There really aren’t any. By modifying the isosceles to be more stable it eliminates the main drawback of the isosceles. If I had to give a con it is that it can sometimes be harder for people with mobility problems to get into properly.

Like I said before, everyone has the stance that they prefer, and they all have pros and cons. find the one that works best for you and the type of training that you are doing.

Social Violence: Mindset Monday

Social Violence exampleIt’s Monday again! A little while back I wrote about the three things that I feel make up a “protector” mindset; awareness, confidence, and purpose. Well it is time to start expanding on those three topics. Today we look at part of what makes up awareness, How to recognize “social” violence. When you are confronted with a possibly violent situation, it is important to be able to recognize the type of violence that you are seeing or may need to deal with.

Imagine with me if you will, you are out at a bar with your friends. You and your buddy walk towards the bar to get another round and your friend accidentally bumps into a guy with his friends. He turns and tells your friend “watch it a**hole”, well your friend (having had a couple glasses of liquid courage) responds with an equally “witty” comment. What happens next?

If you are a male born in the last 10,000 years or so you can probably see the event unfold like you are watching a rerun of your favorite T.V. show. If you happen to be a time traveling caveman or a toll bridge troll reading this lets walk through it really quick.

insult, insult, someone throws their arms out and says “what are you gonna do about it”, they get nose to nose, another couple insults, one pushes the other, big haymaker punch, a few quick blows, someone on the ground with a bloody nose or busted lip, friends pull the two apart.

Why is it that we all saw this before I said it? It’s really pretty easy to understand. Humans at our basic level are just animals, and as animals we have a social hierarchy that we are always trying to find our place in. What we just described is an example of “social” violence. This is the typical type of violence that we see in high schools, bars, etc. There are a few tell tail signs that you can watch out for that are dead giveaways that you are dealing with social violence.

  • Requires an audience – whether present or to be informed later, an audience is required for social order so that the audience knows where their place as well as the aggressor’s and your places are in the hierarchy.
  • Non-violent option – There is (almost) always a non-violent option to get out of the situation. The more aggressive person will typically give the other person a chance to walk away, allowing the aggressor to save face without physical conflict.
  • Communication Skills – Almost all social violence can be resolved through good communication and defusing skills. “Those who talk can be persuaded to walk” – Tony Blauer

The common thing that drives social violence is ego, We as humans want and need our peers to respect us and, we need to respect ourselves. Unfortunately for too many people this does not manifest as self-confidence but, as an inflated and fragile ego. As such, we allow any threat to our egos to control our actions and most times make poor decisions. If we carry a weapon for self defense these ego driven decisions can lead to far worse than a bloody nose. It can lead to criminal charges, jail, or if things escalate farther, the loss of life either our own or someone else.

By being aware of and letting go of our own ego we can avoid or defuse almost all instances of social violence. When confronted with these situations it can be as simple as telling the other person that they win and walking away, Yes of course there will probably be some more insults but, they are just words and as the old school rhyme goes “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me”  

If you would like to learn more you can register for our “Situational Awareness and Protector Mindset” course where we go far more in depth into the different types, causes, avoidance strategies, and how to respond to social violence. Learn More

The Fighting Mindset

I like to think that I don’t just teach people to shoot their firearms. Anyone can learn how to send a round down range. It is easy to put a few holes in a piece of paper. Being in a situation where your life is on the line is going to be very different than what you see on flat range.

I have a lot of friends and guys that I have trained with that are veterans or law enforcement. In discussions that I have had with them and stories that they have told me, the one thing that has always stood out to me as most interesting is what was going through their minds when they where in those combat or high stress situations. A lot of veterans and LEO call this “combat mindset”.

Well, I never had the honor to serve my country and, I have never been in law enforcement. I am just a citizen and patriot who, after buying my first firearm, realized that I was woefully inadequate in my skill set and , was probably more of a danger with it than a protector. I threw myself into learning and training and, one of the main things that I have come away with is a “fighting mindset”.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, almost every major study on defensive gun use has found that Americans use their firearms defensively between 500,000 and 3 million times each year. There’s good reason to believe that most defensive gun uses are never reported to law enforcement, much less picked up by local or national media outlets.

To be successful and survive if you become one of the millions of people every year that are put into a defensive situation. You will need to have a fighting mindset. I have come to believe that there are three main factors to developing that fighting mindset. Awareness, Confidence and, Purpose.

Awareness: You need to be aware of your surroundings and any situations that you are, or have been put in.

Confidence: You have to be confident in your training. One of the most heard things after an incident is, “I just fell back on my training”. You need to train and have the confidence that you can fall back on that training.

Purpose: You have to know and understand the “why” you are acting. Are you protecting your family? yourself? a stranger?

The Greek philosopher Plutarch reported that Spartan mothers would tell their sons “return with your shield, or on it” as their sons left for battle. There is a lot to this very simple statement but I believe that the general idea behind it expresses the kind of mindset that we are going to be talking about in this series of articles that I am going to call “Mindset Mondays”. We are going to explore different strategies and techniques within those 3 main categories that will help you build that fighting mindset and, be better prepared for any situation that you may encounter.

Be sure to check back here and follow my Facebook page to get updates, not only for this series but for the other series and classes that we will be planning

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